This girl out of the blue messaged me a few weeks ago wanting to get together so we did. Had a great time and continued to text and talk for about a week. This past weekend I sent her a couple of texts but no reply. I told myself I’m not going to contact anymore and have stuck to my guns. Am I doing the right thing?
You should respect her decision. Moving on yourself and accepting this great friendship you have would be a very difficult choice, but it may be the right one. If you don’t want to accept this, all you can really do is be honest with her and be yourself. There isn’t a magic trick to make her suddenly attracted to you again. It is possible she just needs some time to make sure you have really changed.